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Catholic LifeFebruary 13, 2025

A Catholic Guide to Dating — Courtship vs Hanging Out

Modern dating is broken. It's time to bring back intentionality. How to date with discerning marriage in mind.

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MyPrayerTower Team
5 min read Spiritual Study

Rule #1: Dating is not a hobby. It is an interview for the job of spouse/parent. If you aren't ready to marry, you aren't ready to date.

"Hanging Out" vs Courtship

  • Hanging Out: Ambiguous. No clear intention. Emotional entanglement without commitment.
  • Courtship: Intentional. "I am interested in seeing if God is calling us to marriage."

The 3 Questions

  1. Do we share the same faith? (Yoke yourself equally).
  2. Can I see this person raising my children?
  3. Do they make me want to be a saint?

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"O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee."
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